Men are visual creatures. They quickly judge women based on their appearance. And if you are really nice on the inside but not well-put together on the outside, they may not want to get to know you. So it is important that you take note of the five things men look at when they talk to women:
1. Your eyes: Men look at your eyes because it simply speak volumes about what you feel on the inside. When you are talking they look at your eyes to see what language it is speaking. If you like a man, your eyes will give you away even before your words do.
2. Your skin: They look at whether you have clear skin or skin that has a lot of scars and acne. If you have clear radiant skin especially when it does not look like you have much makeup on, then you have their attention. If your skin needs help, they tend to lose interest in wanting to get to know you.
3. Your breast: For most men, nice plump breast is a sign of good health. If you have that right size they love, they imagine themselves squeezing or kissing it. Of course they will not tell you that is what they are thinking, but that is exactly what they are thinking.
4. Your Lips and teeth: Men will look at how full and kissable your lips are. If your teeth are white and straight, then you have exactly what they want to see in the woman they would like to date.
5. Your stomach: The flatter your tummy the better. If you have a few pounds around your waste line, then most guys will tend to lose interest, unless they think that you will lose it with a little exercise.
6. Your Butt: If you happen to turn around and walk away from a man you are talking to, you can bet your life that the next place his eyes will go, will be your butt. If you have that teardrop-shaped butt count yourself lucky. Most men do not want a butt they cannot put in the palm of their hand. In other words, most men do not want women with butts that are simply too big, and certainly not too small.
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How to Get That One Special Girl
The issue of nervousness and anxiety talking to a stunning woman is a big problem, I know, I've been there before, yet there is a solution, and amazingly it can be learned in just a few minutes.
The first thing you must realize is that the problem is not that you don't know what to say. I'm quite sure when you are with friends out and about you talk with them, you don't sit there all nervous thinking things like "oh do they like me? Am I being cool enough? What do I say?" You simply say what you want to say and do what you like, and this is the first key to finding the right words when talking to the girl you like.
You see, it's all up there in your mind, all those amazing stories, fun things you've done in your life, great things to talk about. You simply need to somehow get it out of your mind and verbalize those thoughts. To do this you need to do what is known as "thinking outside your head" or "being in state", it's where you stop thinking about anything at all and just start talking. When you live outside your head you start becoming less dependent on the result or outcome of what you said and you start being yourself.
The hard part is taking that first step, in fact it's the hardest part of all, for once you turn off that little internal voice that is constantly telling you things you really don't need to know, it's a nice downhill slide into what I like to call happy joy joy land, that place where you get this high just from the experience of just being around beautiful women and you start to feel almost euphoric. Yep you probably experienced it last you had a major crush on a girl, remember how it seemed like every time you locked eyes you had this tingly good feeling. Imagine that all over again with the volume turned to 11.
To get into this state you must first hear that voice inside your head. Next time you're talking to a girl do this: listen to yourself think, think about what you're thinking about and realize what you are doing. You will find you probably have a lot of negative self talk going on in there, and it is this self talk that is causing you to feel the nerves and anxiety you feel when talking to women. Once you can finely tune in on the emotions you are feeling and realize what your brain is saying to you (generally things like "don't screw up" or "don't say that, that's stupid") you are ready for the next step.
Ok this step is probably best done with girls other than the one you like, for you will screw up, but the screw up is not a bad thing, it's a learning process and you learn 100x from getting rejected by a girl than you do by not doing anything. The next step is to tune out all this negative self imaging and start saying ANYTHING that comes to mind, I don't care if you just thought your toenails need clipping, just say it out loud! The point is not to become cool instantly; the point is to start living outside of your head. When you start blurting out everything without a second thought you will notice your mind shifts from constantly thinking about everything and overanalyzing situations, to simply being in the moment and coming along for the ride, rather than controlling your actions. Only once you start living outside your mind can you start to become a cool guy who knows exactly what to say, if you are still thinking inside your head you will still have that bad self talk telling you not to say anything at all and you will get nowhere.
After you have gotten outside of your mind and started to experiment with just saying anything you can start the next step, Self Amusement. Simply look at the person you're talking to and start laughing, you don't even need anything funny to laugh about, just make yourself laugh at absolutely nothing. If they ask what it is, laugh harder and start to shake your head like you're saying no, at the same time telling them "Oh I can't do that, you'll stop doing it and I won't have my source of amusement for the day". This is the beginning of self amusement and once you have mastered the act of just making yourself laugh with anything you can instantly get in state at any time (more explained on this phenomenon later). Doing something in order to simply amuse yourself rather than others is extremely attractive to women and incredibly fun for you. The key here is to amuse YOURSELF, you are not trying to make her laugh you are simply having fun and poking fun at her. Keep practicing this self amusement with everyone you know, just doing silly things and laughing at them, if they don't laugh with you WHO CARES, it's more fun when you are having all the fun and pretty soon they will want to join in too.
Ok so now you think outside your head and can self amuse, what's next? We'll the next step is to put all this together and start doing it at the start of every conversation with a new girl you meet, even if you don't know them from a bar of soap. Crack up laughing and do silly things (pull faces, make fun of things they are doing/wearing, whatever), what this will do is get you *in state* and being in state is one of the most powerful things ever.
When you are in state you are on a sort of high where you feel invincible (kind of like being drunk) and when you get into this state because of the immense amount of positive happy energy you are giving off, you can almost do no wrong. Imagine it being like that fun drunk dude you always see at the bar/party that is going around high fiving people and having a blast, be that guy (using the above methods) and have an awesome time no matter where you are or what you're doing.
Once you can get into this state through self amusement and just having fun you will notice something magical, you start to realize that you can say just about anything and people will respond positively to it. It is at this point that you will realize that it really doesn't matter what you have to say, it's how you feel and how others feel about you at the time you say it. You can make the best joke in the world when you are not in state, being a normal everyday guy, and it may bomb, yet say a lame joke when you are in state and watch everyone crack up laughing. It's really cool when you first experience this because it's at this point that you finally start to realize you don't need fancy lines or pickup tactics to get women, all you need is to be yourself in a happy, excited, fun state, doing what you want to do and caring little about what others think about you. For when you think about it, everyone is too busy worrying about what others think about them to think about others, so do what you like and simply have fun.
Finally once you have started using this ability to get in a fun, enjoyable state easily, do it when you are around the girl you're interested in and you will notice her attraction spiking immensely. Every girl wants a fun, exciting guy to be with, be that man and the girl you desire will be all over you.To learn more,click here
The first thing you must realize is that the problem is not that you don't know what to say. I'm quite sure when you are with friends out and about you talk with them, you don't sit there all nervous thinking things like "oh do they like me? Am I being cool enough? What do I say?" You simply say what you want to say and do what you like, and this is the first key to finding the right words when talking to the girl you like.
You see, it's all up there in your mind, all those amazing stories, fun things you've done in your life, great things to talk about. You simply need to somehow get it out of your mind and verbalize those thoughts. To do this you need to do what is known as "thinking outside your head" or "being in state", it's where you stop thinking about anything at all and just start talking. When you live outside your head you start becoming less dependent on the result or outcome of what you said and you start being yourself.
The hard part is taking that first step, in fact it's the hardest part of all, for once you turn off that little internal voice that is constantly telling you things you really don't need to know, it's a nice downhill slide into what I like to call happy joy joy land, that place where you get this high just from the experience of just being around beautiful women and you start to feel almost euphoric. Yep you probably experienced it last you had a major crush on a girl, remember how it seemed like every time you locked eyes you had this tingly good feeling. Imagine that all over again with the volume turned to 11.
To get into this state you must first hear that voice inside your head. Next time you're talking to a girl do this: listen to yourself think, think about what you're thinking about and realize what you are doing. You will find you probably have a lot of negative self talk going on in there, and it is this self talk that is causing you to feel the nerves and anxiety you feel when talking to women. Once you can finely tune in on the emotions you are feeling and realize what your brain is saying to you (generally things like "don't screw up" or "don't say that, that's stupid") you are ready for the next step.
Ok this step is probably best done with girls other than the one you like, for you will screw up, but the screw up is not a bad thing, it's a learning process and you learn 100x from getting rejected by a girl than you do by not doing anything. The next step is to tune out all this negative self imaging and start saying ANYTHING that comes to mind, I don't care if you just thought your toenails need clipping, just say it out loud! The point is not to become cool instantly; the point is to start living outside of your head. When you start blurting out everything without a second thought you will notice your mind shifts from constantly thinking about everything and overanalyzing situations, to simply being in the moment and coming along for the ride, rather than controlling your actions. Only once you start living outside your mind can you start to become a cool guy who knows exactly what to say, if you are still thinking inside your head you will still have that bad self talk telling you not to say anything at all and you will get nowhere.
After you have gotten outside of your mind and started to experiment with just saying anything you can start the next step, Self Amusement. Simply look at the person you're talking to and start laughing, you don't even need anything funny to laugh about, just make yourself laugh at absolutely nothing. If they ask what it is, laugh harder and start to shake your head like you're saying no, at the same time telling them "Oh I can't do that, you'll stop doing it and I won't have my source of amusement for the day". This is the beginning of self amusement and once you have mastered the act of just making yourself laugh with anything you can instantly get in state at any time (more explained on this phenomenon later). Doing something in order to simply amuse yourself rather than others is extremely attractive to women and incredibly fun for you. The key here is to amuse YOURSELF, you are not trying to make her laugh you are simply having fun and poking fun at her. Keep practicing this self amusement with everyone you know, just doing silly things and laughing at them, if they don't laugh with you WHO CARES, it's more fun when you are having all the fun and pretty soon they will want to join in too.
Ok so now you think outside your head and can self amuse, what's next? We'll the next step is to put all this together and start doing it at the start of every conversation with a new girl you meet, even if you don't know them from a bar of soap. Crack up laughing and do silly things (pull faces, make fun of things they are doing/wearing, whatever), what this will do is get you *in state* and being in state is one of the most powerful things ever.
When you are in state you are on a sort of high where you feel invincible (kind of like being drunk) and when you get into this state because of the immense amount of positive happy energy you are giving off, you can almost do no wrong. Imagine it being like that fun drunk dude you always see at the bar/party that is going around high fiving people and having a blast, be that guy (using the above methods) and have an awesome time no matter where you are or what you're doing.
Once you can get into this state through self amusement and just having fun you will notice something magical, you start to realize that you can say just about anything and people will respond positively to it. It is at this point that you will realize that it really doesn't matter what you have to say, it's how you feel and how others feel about you at the time you say it. You can make the best joke in the world when you are not in state, being a normal everyday guy, and it may bomb, yet say a lame joke when you are in state and watch everyone crack up laughing. It's really cool when you first experience this because it's at this point that you finally start to realize you don't need fancy lines or pickup tactics to get women, all you need is to be yourself in a happy, excited, fun state, doing what you want to do and caring little about what others think about you. For when you think about it, everyone is too busy worrying about what others think about them to think about others, so do what you like and simply have fun.
Finally once you have started using this ability to get in a fun, enjoyable state easily, do it when you are around the girl you're interested in and you will notice her attraction spiking immensely. Every girl wants a fun, exciting guy to be with, be that man and the girl you desire will be all over you.To learn more,click here
10 Ways To Rekindle The Magic In Your Relationship
Are you frustrated that your relationship doesn’t
have the magic and romance that it once had?
You’re not alone.
Living with the same partner for a long time can
become stable and comfortable, and, as a result,
can also kill the spark that made your relationship
so special in the first place.
Here are some simple, fun and creative ideas to
reignite that magic:
1. SEND THEM A UNIQUE GIFT
Get a piece of paper and some crayons. Draw a
bright childlike picture with a smiley sun and two
stick figures holding hands. Add labels with your
two names pointing to the stick figures. Write ‘I
Love You’ inside a heart. Next get a large formal
envelope. Place your drawing inside and type up a
formal address label of your partner's workplace,
such as: “For the immediate and urgent attention
of: Rebecca Jones, Level 20, Collins & Smith
Solicitors, New York.” Mail it to your partner so
they receive it in the middle of a busy day.
2. BECOME KIDS AGAIN
If you are walking by a park, visit the swings and
give your partner a ride. This will often bring
back happy memories from their childhood.
3. FUN WITH WATER
On a hot summer’s day, buy two large water pistols
and take them to the beach with you. Pull them out
and throw one to your partner and then have a huge
water fight.
4. A MASSAGE WITH A TWIST
Buy a small, decorated cardboard box, a sheet of
colored tissue paper, some massage oil and a blank
card. Line the box with the tissue paper. Place the
massage oil in the box and write the following
message on the card: I know a great masseur. For an
appointment call: (Your Phone Number)
5. BRING BACK CHILDHOOD MEMORIES
Contact your partner's family and ask if there was
anything she always wanted when she was a little
girl. For example if she always wanted a porcelain
doll, buy one for her birthday. She will not only
appreciate the gift, but also the fact that you
were thoughtful enough to find out what she always
wanted. You can do this for your man too.
6. STARE AT THE CLOUDS
Drive into the country, find a grassy hill, and lie
with your partner and look up at the clouds.
7. WALK ALONG THE BEACH
Trace out the shape of a large love heart in the
sand. Sit inside the heart and cuddle your partner
as you watch the sun go down.
8. ORGANIZE A PICNIC ON A WARM SUMMER’S NIGHT
Spread a picnic blanket on the ground and get
together some snacks, chocolates and champagne. Lie
down on the blanket with your partner and gaze up
at the stars together.
9. SHOW YOU’RE GRATEFUL FOR YOUR PARTNER
Leave a long-stem rose where your partner will find
it, with a note on it saying: "Thank you for coming
into my life."
10. SPICE UP YOUR LOVEMAKING
Probably the most profound way to rekindle the
romance in your relationship is to spice up your
lovemaking. Surprise your partner with a little
gift after you make love, try a new position, learn
to give your partner a sensual massage before or
after, or just spend some time staring into each
other’s eyes and caressing their bare skin before
making love.
Many people underestimate the affect passionate and
intimate lovemaking has on a relationship. If you
spice it up, chances are you and your partner will
naturally do romantic things for each other. Why?
Because passionate lovemaking connects two people
in a meaningful and unexplainable way that nothing
else can.
To learn more about
Lovemaking Tips, a book full of ways to spice up
your lovemaking, adding more passion, pleasure and
intimacy to your experience, click here
have the magic and romance that it once had?
You’re not alone.
Living with the same partner for a long time can
become stable and comfortable, and, as a result,
can also kill the spark that made your relationship
so special in the first place.
Here are some simple, fun and creative ideas to
reignite that magic:
1. SEND THEM A UNIQUE GIFT
Get a piece of paper and some crayons. Draw a
bright childlike picture with a smiley sun and two
stick figures holding hands. Add labels with your
two names pointing to the stick figures. Write ‘I
Love You’ inside a heart. Next get a large formal
envelope. Place your drawing inside and type up a
formal address label of your partner's workplace,
such as: “For the immediate and urgent attention
of: Rebecca Jones, Level 20, Collins & Smith
Solicitors, New York.” Mail it to your partner so
they receive it in the middle of a busy day.
2. BECOME KIDS AGAIN
If you are walking by a park, visit the swings and
give your partner a ride. This will often bring
back happy memories from their childhood.
3. FUN WITH WATER
On a hot summer’s day, buy two large water pistols
and take them to the beach with you. Pull them out
and throw one to your partner and then have a huge
water fight.
4. A MASSAGE WITH A TWIST
Buy a small, decorated cardboard box, a sheet of
colored tissue paper, some massage oil and a blank
card. Line the box with the tissue paper. Place the
massage oil in the box and write the following
message on the card: I know a great masseur. For an
appointment call: (Your Phone Number)
5. BRING BACK CHILDHOOD MEMORIES
Contact your partner's family and ask if there was
anything she always wanted when she was a little
girl. For example if she always wanted a porcelain
doll, buy one for her birthday. She will not only
appreciate the gift, but also the fact that you
were thoughtful enough to find out what she always
wanted. You can do this for your man too.
6. STARE AT THE CLOUDS
Drive into the country, find a grassy hill, and lie
with your partner and look up at the clouds.
7. WALK ALONG THE BEACH
Trace out the shape of a large love heart in the
sand. Sit inside the heart and cuddle your partner
as you watch the sun go down.
8. ORGANIZE A PICNIC ON A WARM SUMMER’S NIGHT
Spread a picnic blanket on the ground and get
together some snacks, chocolates and champagne. Lie
down on the blanket with your partner and gaze up
at the stars together.
9. SHOW YOU’RE GRATEFUL FOR YOUR PARTNER
Leave a long-stem rose where your partner will find
it, with a note on it saying: "Thank you for coming
into my life."
10. SPICE UP YOUR LOVEMAKING
Probably the most profound way to rekindle the
romance in your relationship is to spice up your
lovemaking. Surprise your partner with a little
gift after you make love, try a new position, learn
to give your partner a sensual massage before or
after, or just spend some time staring into each
other’s eyes and caressing their bare skin before
making love.
Many people underestimate the affect passionate and
intimate lovemaking has on a relationship. If you
spice it up, chances are you and your partner will
naturally do romantic things for each other. Why?
Because passionate lovemaking connects two people
in a meaningful and unexplainable way that nothing
else can.
To learn more about
Lovemaking Tips, a book full of ways to spice up
your lovemaking, adding more passion, pleasure and
intimacy to your experience, click here
HOW TO MAKE SOMEONE FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU
So can it actually be done? Can you truly make someone fall in love with you? You see we might love someone but is there a way to get that person to love us back? Nothing is impossible and you can easily get a person to fall in love with you if you follow the right steps. Read on to discover some of the most amazingly effective ways to really make someone fall in love with you and achieve earth shattering results..........
Make this person feel good about himself/herself- This is the very first steps towards making someone fall in love with you. You must try to make this person feel good about being themselves. You see the better they feel about themselves around you the more attracted they would be to you and at the same time you give them this special feeling due to which you automatically become special to them.
Understand this person's problems- If you can be the one who truly understand this person and knows what he/she goes through that person will be willing to be around you more and more. Try to help them out and also provide them with possible solutions.
Always talk about positive things- This is the most important aspect in the process of making someone fall in love with you. You see you should always focus on the positive and always talk in a positive manner as much as possible. Negativity is something which repels people while a positive attitude is something which will make people get attracted to you all the time.
Make this person feel good about himself/herself- This is the very first steps towards making someone fall in love with you. You must try to make this person feel good about being themselves. You see the better they feel about themselves around you the more attracted they would be to you and at the same time you give them this special feeling due to which you automatically become special to them.
Understand this person's problems- If you can be the one who truly understand this person and knows what he/she goes through that person will be willing to be around you more and more. Try to help them out and also provide them with possible solutions.
Always talk about positive things- This is the most important aspect in the process of making someone fall in love with you. You see you should always focus on the positive and always talk in a positive manner as much as possible. Negativity is something which repels people while a positive attitude is something which will make people get attracted to you all the time.
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