How To Approach Companies Of Girls You Don't Even Know, And Still Get Them To Think You're Super!

For example lets use women at a bar. I will be going into lots of other techniques for non-bar pickups too but for now, we’ll stick with this.

(Note: In fact, I even recommend you try my top places for picking up that are not bars – they are WAY better than ANY bar and you’ll see a massive leap in your success rates with women.)

As you know, women don’t usually go to bars on their own. They go in companies.

Approaching COMPANIES of women can be extremely daunting and if you don’t know what you’re doing, you can fail BADLY with groups and like a pack of wolves they can rip you apart. I’ve seen men get cussed at, totally ignored and even drinks poured over them.

But if you do the approach RIGHT, then your success with a group of women can usually yield great results.

Whenever I suggest approaching groups of women I get LOADS of guys looking at me as though I’m from another planet. I realize that lots of guys probably don’t have the initial confidence to simply walk up to beautiful women they don’t know. Don’t worry, this can be easily solved. I’ll give you some simple tips here.

SIDE NOTE: If you have a major confidence problem then don’t worry, There is an advanced 155-page E-book called HypnoDate which almost exclusively goes into increasing your confidence with women – and it works through the power of self-reprogramming so it doesn’t matter how shy you are, this thing WILL work for you.

INCREASING CONFIDENCE EXERCISE IN THE MALL

Step 1. Walk around the shopping mall and when you catch a woman’s eye, smile at her – more often than not, she’ll smile back. To start with you can do this just with shop employees. Even if they don’t WANT to smile, they probably will. Good practice. And you might even brighten a few women’s lives a little.

Step 2. Once you’ve gained confidence in making natural eye contact and a smile with staff, you could move onto other women in the mall. I’m not suggesting big weird freak smiles, just nice, natural friendly ones. A lot of women will smile back at you.

Step 3. Here’s where it might seem a little weird, but this really does help and practice and repetition will make this lots easier. Just say “hi” with a smile to women (and men if you like) as you walk around the mall. It will feel HORRIBLE at first if you are not confident but slowly, after an hour or two, it’ll seem easy.

After you’ve smiled and said hi to 20 or 30 women, you should start to feel good (as long as you don’t quit on your first negative response – this will happen and will happen when you’re approaching women to pick them up – you HAVE to learn to step out of your comfort zone if you want to be successful with women).

One of my male friends did the “smile at girls in the mall” technique and he actually ended up meeting the girl of his dreams and is still with her 3 years later – how’s that for effective!

There are loads of other techniques you can do to build your confidence, most not quite as scary as the mall one. I go into others within my book…

Right, let’s assume you now have the confidence or at least the guts to approach women you don’t know in a bar (Again, I don’t just go into bar pickups in my book, in fact, I think the best places to pick up women are NOT in a bar – I think it’s everyday places where you’re not competing with other single guys).

Firstly, let’s suppose two girls are sat together at a bar. One is the ‘ugly’ one and one is the hot one (the one you like the looks of and would like to get to know more).

You see the girls. Go up to them and talk to them NOW! Don’t waste time. Within 3 seconds of seeing them, approach them. Some people call this the 3 second rule and I must say it really does seem to work.

If you see her and like her, it’s best not to think too much about the approach, or you’re more likely to work yourself into such a state that your approach will be ineffective or you’ll just pussy out altogether!
(Don’t worry I’ll tell you WHAT to say when you get there in a future lesson). So within 3 seconds, go TALK to her!

ALWAYS, ALWAYS approach a woman from the side or an angle from the front. !!!NEVER from behind – IMPORTANT!!!

If you go up to the group at the bar and approach from behind you will INSTANTLY invoke a negative response, and they will be put on the defensive - for obvious reasons. ALWAYS, ALWAYS, ALWAYS go in from the side...

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HOW TO GET THE GIRL OF YOUR DREAM

Do you have to be drop dead good looking to get the girl of your dreams? The answer is no. The fact is most girls simply don't go for pure looks and the phrase what's on the inside is as important as whats on the outside is just as important if not more so in getting your dream date.

Here you will find 10 tips that are guaranteed to help you get the date you really want and maybe even get the girl of your dreams.

1. Know Your Strengths & Weaknesses

Firstly you need to thing of your strengths and weaknesses and if you are honest with yourself you will know them to.

It's not your strengths you need to work on but your weaknesses to improve your overall personality. While this may seem fairly obvious most people think their strengths can make up for their weaknesses but this is not the case.

2. Get Help

When you know your weaknesses get help. If for instance you feel you lack a sense of style (and many men do) get help.

A good place to start is with a trusted female friend who can give you an honest opinion. A fantastic investment though is to visit a professional - In this case an image consultant who will ensure you look good.

Top on most women's list of likes is a well turned out guy.

You can look good and be great personality but this wont make up for a lack of style.

3. Make The Most Of What You Have

Grooming is critical. Make sure your face and hair look good. If in doubt with your hair get it cut most women see short hair as tidy and manly.

Also pay attention to your skin and make sure you moisturise and cleanse.

Nothing is more unattractive than bad skin.

What do most women love on a man?

A great smile! Make sure you have one regular trips to the dentist and white teeth are a must - You can bleach your teeth for about 100.00 and this is a sound investment

4. The Art Of Conversation

Most women love a man who can communicate with them so you must learn the art of conversation if you find communicating difficult - Not enough room here but you can find out all about it in our related articles

5. Romance

What women don't like a bit of romance? It shows you care.

They don't have to be expensive gestures just show you have gone out of your way for them. A bunch of flowers, a book she may like or cook her a meal.

The fact you have made the gesture will be highly appreciated.

6. Don't be Afraid To Show A Feminine Side

This does not mean you are not a man. It simply shows you are sensitive and in touch with your feeling and emotions. Most women love a sensitive side so show it.

7. Manners

This simply means showing your date respect. You are punctual and you are attentive to your dates needs. You can open doors, take her coat and when she leaves you to go home, make sure she gets home safely, if you are not dropping her off.

If this sounds old fashioned to you and you think a women won't appreciate it - Try it and see, you will be surprised at how well it goes down.

8. Sense Of Humour

All women like men who make them laugh. If you are a serious person try not to take yourself to seriously, be able to laugh at adversity, yourself and don't take life to seriously.

Do the above tips mean you will get your dream girl - Maybe not, but they will certainly improve your chances. Don't try to hard and remember we all sometimes get rejected but there is someone out there for everyone.